Friday, October 24, 2008
♥ complaints~
its gonna be a looooooong weekend! yahoo! heh heh. fri-mon free except for tongji intern on sat morn! n i dun intend to do much studyin durin these four days except abit of plant bio lab report... zzz... ive been wantin to blog for the past few days but every time on e com the feelin was lost. haha. cuz i wanted to COMPLAIN abt certain types of pple. but everytime i 心软 den cant put down into words.
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first things first. i wanna put down my view here that i dont think true altruism (check dictionary if u dunno meaning -.-) really exists, at least for me. i cant love someone w/o expecting that someone to love me back (aka i dun believe in one-sided love, it usually makes at least one party miserable) and i prob do charity once in a while with the feelin deep inside that hopefully if one day i have similar probs pple will do the same to me too. things like this. so with this point of view, i shall discuss the types of pple i've met in life so far n dun really agree with.
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well, if ur readin this by chance, i might or might not be refering to you, but im definitely not tryin to be mean. i just dont understand the way some pple do things, n i hope if they get to see my post, they can reflect upon themselves and see themselves the way others may see them. if there can be any changes for the better, all the better! :D
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(in random order...)
TYPE "E-M" aka Extreme Mugger.
im not particularly against smart pple (in fact, i like to hang arnd them cuz i feel that they can make me improve and strive harder) but i dont understand why some pple can live with studyin every day, seven days a wk. or rather, put crudely, study away their life. there'r so many things out there to see, n i know studies a high priority (its on top of my priority list together w baobei, in frnt of others like family n friends), But! i still think a life tt revolves around grades will make E-Ms suffer once they enter society. cuz what everyone need to survive is life skills, communication n understanding, not simply a cert alone. get a life! play sports, jio friends out, get a boyfriend/girlfriend! an outgoing personality will bring u more happiness in life, this applies to all :)
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TYPE "MF-B-NTF" aka Many Friends But No True Friends.
i dislike it when these type of pple go around making many many friends everywhere, even w pple who dont really welcome their presence or find it an intrusion. this kinda friendship is kinda "forced" and i believe wont last long. moreover it usually will give their "closer" friends a sense of "leaving" to join others or "betrayal" in a more extreme sense. im not a v friendly person, but i believe that i will know pple in time if im given the chance to, but i wont specially initiate friendships most of the time. MF-B-NTFs usually feel lonely alot of the time and desire true friendship. leave all those hi-bye friends and stay focused to a few. thats my advice if u'r one.
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TYPE "ID" aka InDecisive.
"anything lor" "you decide" are these pple's favorite phrases. n i HATE to hear them all the time. of course u can say them, but not when an impt n urgent decision is abt to be made. it drives me crazy sometimes when i meet up w friends den decide where to go for dinner. we just spend nearly one hr standin there saying "im fine with anything, really" until one brave soul comes up with a brilliant idea. that reminds me, IDs usually will say "har.. but i dun like that place leh" or "i ate there the other day alrdy" when someone makes a suggestion. my goodness. if u cant contribute, den dont refute. my advice? at least suggest one place n den let everyone vote. don sulk if ur part of the minority. haha..
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TYPE "S-LC" aka Super LateCommers.
i Totally hate waiting for more than 15min for a gathering or meeting, esp for those which require almost everyone to reach before we can set off. unless valid reason like accident or wad. cuz if S-LCs say "the bus was late" or "traffic jam", the thing is they Could have predicted the unpredictability and leave a little earlier. and the worst thing is they arrive an hour late and they dont LOOK the least apologetic (even thou they may mumble "sorry sorry"). sometimes it totally spoilt the mood of a gatherin or the eagerness of a meeting. so pls, try to be on time n not act like a princess. (and its DOUBLE the sin if S-LCs happen to be guys.)
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TYPE SF aka Self-Fish.
ok its abt ironic tt i should mention this type of pple since accordin to my view, most pple r not truly altruistic. haha here i mean selfish in the sense tt these pple behave like parasites, wanting others to give help but offering v little in return. its like, if u want others to offer help in giving answers to a certain subject, den u should be equally helpful in giving help in subjects u can help. in this situation i would like to commend my fellow classmate KeeKa! haha she's been an angel to everyone arnd her cuz she would willingly lend ppl everything :) cheers! i know i cant be like her thou. i would feel too pissed to be "used" lol~
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TYPE "BB" aka BimBo.
haha ok u know i know wad bimbo means. hard to describe thou. hmm some bimbos r quite nice! haha like my roomie is abit bimbotic, but a v nice person. i dun like those that go all flirty around guys. its like they emit pheromones everywhere once hot guys are arnd. lol. i think its fine to go all gooey-eyed thou. muahaha. i was actually thinkin of a certain bballer when i came up with this BB typ of pple.
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actually i could think of a few more but juz now mummy voice v loud, forced all my coherent thoughts away. sian-ded. k la gotta go slp le. tml stil got intern!
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^the Queen^
is being a good girl n takes her herbal medicine regularly even thou they taste pretty horrible. sigh.
Friday, October 24, 2008
